4 Reasons Ladies Have Low Self-Esteem

 

This is for the ladies. In my 22 years back, I have experienced many things about ladies especially about their development and upbringing. I have always wondered why ladies have low self-esteem? They have forgotten their formation; they were made. This is an article to show you as a lady that you are special and you should never settle for less.

If you are asked to describe yourself in three sentences what will be your response?

Will it be positive or negative?

Self-esteem is the way you perceive yourself. If you have a high self-esteem, you will be comfortable with your true self

and you will be happy with life. Even with your high self-esteem, people tends to give you respect and moving forward in life will be easier for you.

If you have a low self-esteem, you will give up easily because you have the fear of not being accepted.

Here are four reasons why ladies have low self-esteem.

• Self-Doubt

When you don't believe in yourself, your skills and knowledge, you tend to worn out. Most times when you are asked to perform a task, you respond with "I can't do it." This is why... It's because you don't see yourself doing it rightly and you fear you might be laughed at.

Believe in yourself and break out of the box. You can do it.

• Self-pity

When you feel pity for yourself, either because of your background most especially when you come from a broken home or when your parents are unable to meet your needs, or your environment had affected you or you have pressing issues, you won't move on. No matter your background, your back must not be on the ground. Having pity for yourself makes you stagnant because you won't see the future ahead. You will put blame on your parents, environment and everyone around you. Even if you meet your helper, self-pity wont free you to see the positive in them.

• Relationship Issues

When you are in a relationship you are not enjoying but you still tolerate all sorts of unreasonable behaviours from your partner all because you want to earn his love and friendship. Unfortunately, you are not loved in return. And you feel like quitting, but you don't want to loose him. At the end you will feel angry and bully people around you.

•Perfectionism

Trying to please people will only make you run out of your purpose. Copying people's behaviour in order to please people has affected many ladies today.